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Fifth Day on the Road

Posted on Sep 5th, 2008 by Fearless : Grace Serene Fearless
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AFTER LEAVING MELBOURNE at 3am on Monday, 1st September I had a very easy and uneventful journey down to the south coast of Victoria.

Mum had always wanted to spend time at Port Fairy, Port Lincoln and to swim with the dolphins at Monkey Mia in Western Australia, so they are three things I will doing in tribute to her memory.   

My relationship with my father appears to have taken a terrible turn for the worst - I have been told my several relatives that he blames me for my mother's death.   He believes that worry about my trip caused her fatal heart attack.   (Not the 60 years of abuse and criticism that he'd levelled at her or her congenital heart disease).

I feel rather philosophical about this.   It's his way to have to blame.   He told me many years ago that when he was little and did something wrong, he always blamed his older brother, so I guess he has developed a life long habit of blaming others for things that go wrong in his life.

But that is him and I hope to leave him and his anger and hatred behind me.

This trip, is without doubt, the best decision I could have made.   I needed to make this move in my life - to move it forward.

The first four days were absolutely idyllic - I went to bed deliriously happy, content that I was on the right path.   But now, the purging begins - all the insecurities, unhappiness, limitations I have are all coming out in a 'spooky visitation'.   I think it's natural - and I'm grateful that my mind and body are shaking off all that might be putrid and unhealthy.

Marlo is a wonderful canine companion.   She's a thinker.   The other late afternoon, she gave a low growl and stared off into the bush.   I went to investigate and not seeing anything, sat down on a tree stump to smoke the last third of a joint someone had given me as a farewell present.   As I smoked and gazed around me, I came face to face (literally) with a small koala, straddling a tree trunk at my eye level about four or five feet away.

We just looked at one another ... looking, looking, looking ... and for the first of what I'm sure will be five hundred times I think it, I thought, "I should have brought my camera with me!"   But by the time I had returned with it, the little koala had made his or her way off into the deeper bush.

My next discovery was a lovely little echidna (a spiny ant-eater) snuggled up in its hollowed out log, fast asleep.   A couple of days later I came across a much bigger relation on a walking track to a lookout.   This time I did have my camera, but as I angled for a better shot, the echidna started burrowing down into the earth.

The general store, near to where I am staying, said there was an "old recluse" living wild in the bush near where I have been camping and one day, coming back from town, I came across him on the road in.   I offered him a lift and found that he was only 53 years old, and had been hiding out in the bush since last Easter.   His face was so fascinating that I wanted to take a photo, but he said he was wanted by the "Americans" for fighting against them and so a photo was out of the question.

He was quite harmless, and I think that drink is his biggest enemy (rather than the Americans).   He was very hospitable, offering me a slug of his whisky and coke and enquiring whether I had enough blankets for this cold weather.   "I have six or seven, and even that's not enough on these cold nights," he advised.   No wonder!   He's been sleeping rough in a tent all winter.   Still, I think his concern about whether I was going to be warm enough, was more an opening gambit for perhaps me offering HIM some hospitality in my warm caravan for the night.

I'm all for experiencing what life has to offer, but taking an old derro from the bush to my bed, is quite another thing!  

Actually, that brings me to another big issue when you're on the road - keeping clean!

I am what I usually refer to as a 'domestic dud' - i.e. I can't really see the point in putting in a lot of effort and energy into things that as soon as you do them, you just have to do them again - like sweep the floor, do dishes, laundry etc.   That's not to say, that I don't do them, I just don't give them much priority.

But when you're living in a tent or a caravan and you're so close to nature, you find that 'nature' (i.e. dirt, leaves, grime, mud, smears etc) are MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTED to every surface known to man!   

I've laid out an artificial turf mat at my caravan door, and have also got a piece of carpet at my step so there are two layers of 'dirt grippers' to catch debris before it comes into the caravan, but it still finds it way in!   I stand on one foot, taking each shoe off in turn, making sure that no atom of dirt gets from the outside, but still my socks seem to attract dirt flying in the air and bring it in to my sancto sanctorum.

I'm either going to have to get more neurotic about cleanliness or give up entirely.   I'll let you know how I go.

Lots of love to you all,

Grace



  





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Happiness Is ...

Posted on Sep 12th, 2008 by Fearless : Grace Serene Fearless
Beachport Shells Blowholecove

HAPPINESS is - coming back to my caravan, just on dark, turning on the two lamps either side of my bed; having a heater on so the van is nice and cosy; knowing there is something good to eat for dinner; listening to lovely classical music on advertisement-free radio; a vase of fragrant wild freesias on the table and a glass of Bombay Sapphire gin and tonic before me.

 

Welcome to Beachport, a lovely fishing village near Robe in South Australia.   (For those who don't know where that is - have a look at the bottom bit of Australia, known as The Great Australian Bight).   

 

I’ve just come back from watching the sun set behind a roaring surf and a scene of such extraordinary beauty that it brought tears to my eyes.   And if that wasn’t enough, yesterday I got to watch a whale and her calf lolling in the azure waters of Rivoli Bay.

 

AND THEN, I was walking back home along the beach when a great big bloody red KANGAROO came hopping down the main street!!!!!     Marlo gave it one incredulous look and then took off after it, despite my cries to come back.   She did return after a couple of minutes, so I'm guessing the roo eluded her in the bushes.

 

This quaint little town has already been discovered by the monied trend-setters of Melbourne and Adelaide, which has consequently sky-rocketed land prices out of reach of most locals unfortunately.   Those who purchased years ago for $45,000, now sit on $450,000.

 

There is so much to like here - lots of scenic walks, gorgeous little coves and lakes (one of which has a salt content seven times that of the ocean and is reputed to be a remedy for those with rheumatism/arthritis etc).   The mystery is why this Pool of Siloam is so salty, considering that it’s fed by a number of freshwater streams.

 

I’ve already been here for three days and am still enthusing about how wonderful it is here, without actually going out and exploring everything that’s on offer.   Lanky’s Walk (which leads to Lanky’s Well (originally dug to provide water for the area’s police horses), Chamber’s Way, the Lagoon, the Salmon Hole.

 

The other magnificent attraction here (at least for me) is the line of breakers out to sea, which remind you that straight out there is the Southern Ocean and Antarctica - a thrill for those of us who revel in the ‘power of the storm’ - winds that lay you flat and pin your ears back.

 

Still haven’t found a playmate for Marlo and I’m thinking more and more that I will probably pick up a pup for her along the way.   She’s stretched out in the sun now on the verdant lawn of the Beachport Caravan Park, where I’m ensconced for the next few days.   The sun is shining (gloriously) but there is a brisk wind, a constant reminder of where we are - the south coast of Australia, heading towards The Great Australian Bight.

 

I’ve decided that I will balance the deprivations of ‘free’ camping with an alternate week of ‘luxoory’ at a caravan park.   Could blow the budget a bit (this one cost $120 for the week), but then, I only used half a tank of petrol to get here from Narrawong, so if I’m lucky it will all work out in the end.

 

David continues to be my ‘darling heart’ - maintaining daily phone contact - which is a highlight of my day.   We have a life together in Second Life (a cyber reality site) and there is always something to be done there.   Without constant internet access, my time there has been severely diminished and others in our community are taking up the slack, which is great.   

 

I love sharing all everything I am experiencing on this trip with David with and hope he gets so enthused, he will decide to join me, for as much as I am enjoying this solitary journey, I would love to share it with him.   There is so much stimulation out here to be had - every day brings something new and invigorating in some way.

 

I've been to a Virgo birthday party at the local hotel; tai chi one morning with a lady I met on an evening walk; and tonight I just might join in a trivia night at the local bowling club.

 

Apart from the visual stimulation and history and geological points of interest, there is still so much for me to process about my life and who I am.     

 

There is a diary entry from years ago where I wrote, “Still working out who I am, and making heavy weather of it!”   This time around, I feel more relaxed about this ‘contemplating my navel’ business, and I find myself vacillating between “Mmmmmmm, must remember to give that some thought” to a more panicked ‘stock take’ of clothes that need to be mended; hair that needs to be cut or shaped; a body that needs to regain some vitality; an attitude that needs to be eliminated etc.

 

Whether I make sense to other people is sometimes important to me, at other times, not.   I am my own work of art in progress.

 

Love to you all,

 

Grace

 

Photos above:

 

The beautiful little fishing village of Beachport which has won my heart; I came across this little collection of shells on one of my morning walks; this cove is at the magnificent Blowhole not far from town.

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Living, Learning ... and Conserving!

Posted on Sep 23rd, 2008 by Fearless : Grace Serene Fearless
Strathalbyn Strathgoth Localmail


BEING AN IMPETUOUS SOUL, one of the ongoing issues I have with being on the road, is the constant need to think ahead about what I want to do.   Apart from the fact that I've always been the kind of person who likes to keep their options open, I'm finding it hard to actually think ahead so that if I do decide to go into town; go for a walk; buy some groceries etc., I have what I need with me to do that.   Remember me telling myself, "Make sure you always have your camera with you" - well, don't ask me how many times I've set off on a walk and half a mile down the road, remember that I didn't bring my camera!

Before I go into a town, I have to work out what I want to do and what I need to do it.   If I plan on having a shower, I have to make sure I have shampoo, conditioner, soap, towel, clean clothes.   Depending on whether the shower has a curtain, I might need an extra towel to put on the floor just so I can dry my feet and step into my shoes without getting everything wet again.   Some showers will be coin-operated, so I have to have a range of coins available to make sure I have the correct money.   If I'm lucky, where I'm going will have a laundry as well, so then I have to make sure I have all my dirty clothes together and soap powder, some pegs, something to carry the laundry in; plus, I also have to work out how much time the clothes will need to dry or else I have to make sure I have enough coins for a dryer as well.     

When I lived in a house, everything was automatic, I didn't have to think about it.   If I needed to go to the toilet during the night, all I had to do was walk down the hall.   Now, it seems that every night I need the toilet at 3am and of course, there's more involved - I have to judge whether I am camped somewhere where it's appropriate to just go and squat out in the bush; or make the long trek to the toilet block or pee in a bucket in the van and then take it over to the toilets in the morning.   All this weighing up of the pros and cons of every little thing gets me down from time to time.   As I said, thinking ahead has never been my forté.

My brain is getting a real workout!

Washing the dishes is another issue.   I have to consider the ramifications of using both my water and gas resources.   When you have to carry all your supplies with you, this is just a fact of life.   How long am I going to be away from somewhere I can buy gas or get water?   I don't even know how much I've got on board.   I filled the water tank of the caravan before I left Beachport, but I have no idea the tank holds and even if I did know, I have no idea of how long that will last.   And I'm certainly not going to do calculations of water volume and then weigh up how much I use to wash dishes, my body, use in cooking etc.   Aaaaaaah, I thought life on the road would be simple!

Believe me, it's not!   Because the car has to weigh somewhere approximating the caravan's weight, I have to make sure that I distribute my load as evenly as I can.   If I don't, if I attempt to go up or down a hill, the caravan will push my car, out of control, down the hill.   I carry my out-of-season clothes in a suitcase and use these as excess weight in the car.   Likewise, extra water; director's chairs (I brought along two in the hope that I will occasionally have someone else to sit down with); a card table (somewhere to put the gin and tonic); extra bedding; art supplies (one day I hope to actually paint a picture!); and whatever other bits and pieces are easily transferable from car to van.   So when I get to where I'm going, I have to unload the car again to make it more economical with the fuel when I'm driving around, exploring.

Another consideration is food.   How much to carry?   Enough so that if I come across a lovely little spot in the middle of nowhere, I can make an impromptu decision to stay for a couple of days without starving to death (which may be the only "diet" solution that I can follow!), but not so much food that it's costing me $50 a week to move it with me.   A few cans of soup, a bit of cheese, some eggs, a loaf of bread and some vegetables can usually get me by.   

But the one thing I have plenty of is solitude.   That doesn't cost or weigh anything.

But enough moaning.

Don't think though that it's all difficulties, dilemmas and 'poor me' nights along the way.   In fact, there have probably only been a couple of nights that I have felt a bit sorry for myself - these usually coincide with a particularly heavy day as far as decision-making goes, when I feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of looking after myself and making so many decisions.   Where to go, how long to take, how much fuel I'll need, have I distributed the weight evenly etc.

I've been fortunate to have met quite a few interesting people along the way - Liz, Graham, Kerrie at Beachport; Doug and Jan and Salt Creek and last night, Lainey and Bill at Langhorne Creek.  

Liz was a woman of a similar age to me and we met while she was out walking and I was out touring around in my car.   When I was up near the lighthouse in Beachport, I'd seen her set off cross-country on her walk.   I drove around to one of the local scenic spots and she was there; the next place I came to, she was there as well - by the time we got to Post Office Rock I burst out laughing at the ridiculousness of me being the overweight lady in the car and she was the slim lady on foot!   I'd previously picked up a copy of the local weekly newsletter and met the editor, Graham at Bompas (where I'd 'won' a free cup of chai latté for a week) and had had a lovely chat with him about the world and its neighbours etc.   One of the ads had been for tai chi and when I went along to the class, Liz was the teacher which was a lovely surprise.   As I struggled with the tai chi routine, I noticed the very down-to-earth Kerrie smiling at me and so, after class when I was invited to join the group at another coffee shop (At The Jetty), Kerrie and I found ourselves deep in conversation, talking about men, relationships, travelling and nature.

Because the winds had been so extraordinarily high for several days, I had to hold up in Beachport.   Graham said the barometric pressure was the lowest he'd ever seen it and the winds certainly gave my lovely little caravan a thorough pounding.   I must admit to a certain degree of anxiety as for three days and nights, the van quivered and shook under the barrage of wind and driving rain.   Poor Marlo was so terrified she slept on top of my head, trembling all night, and even now she still refuses to come into the van.   When I 'invite' her in at night, she just stands at the door and gives a look that says, "What?   In there?   You must be kidding!"

When it was time to bid Beachport adieu, I made a few quick calls around the town - to Bompas to leave the book, "Deer Hunting With Jesus" for Graham, who they told me was working at the museum, so I was able to deliver it personally.   Then to the deli where I'd got to know another lovely lady (at the town's Virgo birthday party several days before); then to the post office (where my mail had been forwarded to) and they said they would take care of any mail which came after I'd left.   Another quick call to the local library/visitor centre/shire office where I'd spent several hours on the internet during the week and borrowed some DVDs, which included Buffalo Girls with Angelica Huston and Irma La Duce with Jack Lemmon and Shirley Maclaine).

I was surprised at the level of emotion I felt at leaving Beachport.   I would have been quite happy to stay, but it was time to continue my journey.   More towns and more 'adventures' await.

Earlier in the morning, when I was packing up the van, I'd caught part of a radio news report about escaped convicts and Salt Creek.   Since that was where I was headed (along The Corrong), I asked around to confirm if what I'd heard was right.   But no one else had heard about it.   I called in to Robe and got some petrol and still no one else had heard about any escapees and again in Kingston, so I was beginning to think that I'd made a mistake.   When I finally arrived in Salt Creek, I called in to the local roadhouse to check before I made camp in the bush.   The young woman there told me that yes, there had been a couple of blokes from a local prison farm (about 35 kms away) who'd made a break for it and had been picked up by a truck driver and taken to Adelaide, where they'd been caught by the police.   Apparently these men only had two more weeks of their sentences left and had been privileged to be included on a work gang who were allowed out into the community.   They had been working behind the roadhouse on some vegetation clearing and had gotten to know the woman's partner a little bit (as evidenced by the fact that they used parts of 'her' life to back up their story to the truck driver that their car had become bogged on the beach and they'd left their girlfriends behind at the roadhouse with her while they returned to Adelaide to get another vehicle).

The Corrong is an incredibly diverse bird habitat from what I could see.   Black swans, bush turkeys, herons, ducks, galahs, wrens.   And lots of rickety old tin shacks built along the shoreline.   The land is pretty flat and surrounded by a kind of saltbush (at least it looked like a saltbush), but teeming with wildlife - emus, kangaroos, wombats etc.   The Salt Creek Roadhouse has just been taken over by a young couple, so I decided to stay the night ($10) and met up with another couple (Grey Nomads the roadhouse owner called us) - Jan and Doug - and we spent a delightful night together having dinner and sitting around a campfire chatting about social justice issues and life in general.

I've now made my way to a wine growing area of Langhorne Creek, near the absolutely little gorgeous town of Strathalbyn.   This place has such a lot to offer - interesting South Australian architecture - sandstone and rock buildings and a lovely old-fashioned feel to it.   The town is divided into two sections - the High Street area and the Dawson Creek 'downtown' area with a beautiful little stream flowing through.

My normally reliable car has developed a mystery problem with the headlights - they won't switch off!   A fellow traveller had a bit of a look and took out the headlight fuse, which was the only way I could stop the battery being flattened overnight.   I'm now at the RAA (South Australia's Royal Auto Club) and they've eliminated all the simple (cheap) possibilities and are now exploring the more complicated (expensive) computer options.   I'm bracing myself for a huge mechanical bill, in which case I think I'll just stick with the "take the fuse out when I'm not using the lights" option.

But it's all just part of the wonderful adventure that a road trip brings with it.   One never knows what tomorrow will bring.

The mechanic has just come in to tell me they've located the problem.   Apparently someone had placed my battery on top of the web or mesh or something like that, which contains all the wiring for my electricals and the constant rubbing of the battery had worn through the headlight cabling.   All fixed and I'm only out $200.

When I got back to the campsite, a lovely couple had arrived in a huge bus, towing a little four wheel drive behind them.   Lainey and Bill are from near Sydney and designed and built the bus themselves.   It's pure luxury and modern design - all streamlined with pumps and motors for everything.   Oooooh, the loooooxury of having your own shower and toilet on board!

Photos above:  

1.   Strathalbyn is a lovely town with such incredibly interesting architecture - this lovely little weir is right in the centre of town, not far from the post office.

2.   One of the most striking buildings in Strathalbyn is this very impressive-looking gothic church.

3.   I don't know whether it's still used as a post office, but I thought this was so cute - the Langhorne Creek general store has this very friendly post box system out on its front verandah.   Aaaah for the days when people could be trusted to have community mail on display like this.





   





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Hiding Out

Posted on Sep 25th, 2008 by Fearless : Grace Serene Fearless
Hi Everyone,

Yesterday was probably the most difficult day I've had so far since I set out on 1st September.   So I've decided that for the next two weeks I'm going to 'hide out' and 're-calibrate' myself.  

I'm in an area where there is no mobile phone coverage so it's going to be a good opportunity to spend some time in solitude, taking stock of a few things.

So don't worry if you don't hear from me for awhile.

Lots of love,

Grace (I wish!)
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Feeling Better

Posted on Sep 26th, 2008 by Fearless : Grace Serene Fearless
Hideaway Clear
JUST THOUGHT I'D LET YOU ALL KNOW that after only one day at my 'hide out spot', I'm feeling much better.   After I'd set up the van, I took a walk along the beach and immediately started to feel happier and calmer.

This morning I worked out my finances and calculate that I will have to stay here in the one spot until 15th October (or thereabouts) to make up for my overspends on recent unexpected things - headlight re-wiring; gas leak; extra fuel to find gas fixer etc.

The irony is that this idyllic spot is a free camp, where Marlo can run free, but there is a big notice as you drive in warning that poisonous baits have been laid to kill wild rabbits and any dogs eating said dead rabbits will subsequently die of poisoning as well.   So I've come into town to see if I can buy a muzzle for her (which I know she will hate, but at least I can rest easy that she's not munching dead wabbits).    Unfortunately, the local rural supplies place didn't have one to fit, so I will have to see what else I can do to protect her from herself (Marlo does love to chase rabbits!)

The other irony is that after so long without canine company, there is a fellow here with a dog - a big ol' Rottweiler, but he's convalescing from some kind of lung virus so I'm not sure I want them playing together anyway.   Life sure is cruel sometimes huh?

In any case, she seems content to lie in the sun and go for walks along the beach.

This morning I opened up a book on fruits and vegetables - one that used to belong to my mother - and I had such a pang as I saw that she'd written her name on the inside cover.   Oooooh mum.   

But good fortune hasn't abandoned me entirely.    When I came online this morning, David called me on Skype so we had the opportunity of catching up.   We usually speak every day, so it's been hard the last several days not having any contact at all.

He's busy promoting his new book on radio and television interviews and he's at a conference now, so we've both had a lot going on.

Maybe I'm a little bit lost.   Apart from the fact that I literally don't know where I'm going these days (apart from the basic concept of 'going around Australia'), I feel that I have a lot to think about and work on.   

But for the moment, I'm kind of looking forward to two weeks of solitude - doing what I set out to do - thinking, read, write, take photos and maybe do some painting.   I have all the time in the world.

UPDATE:     I've checked with one of the local farmers who visits the beach with his own dog and he said the baits were put out back in February / March, so the threat of the poison still being active is non-existent.      Marlo is happily free at last!




  
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