Catching Up
Posted on Sep 30th, 2008
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Fearless
YOU CAN'T BELIEVE A WORD I SAY! lol (laugh out loud) It was only a few days ago that I said I was going to lay low and recharge my (emotional) batteries and here I am, away from camp, touring around, finding an internet access point and am online! I'm incorrigible. You just can't shut me up! lol
Apart from hoping to catch up with David (who has been away at a conference and an Open Space event on an internet free island), there are some things that I've missed in earlier postings which I thought you might be interested in.
While I was at back Langhorne Creek, the other week, I caught up with a second-cousin Vincent, who I haven't seen in over 40 years. Vincent was adopted by my mother's aunt and uncle when he was only a couple of years old, way back in the 1950's.
My memories of going to stay on their farm, 'Rosebrook', near Port Fairy, were of massive, grim-looking holy pictures over the brass beds (Jesus hanging, bleeding, on the cross etc). Each bedroom had its holy picture, marble wash stand and porcelain chamber pot and wash bowl and jug. Very gothic! Vincent and I used to ramble over the windswept paddocks down to the ocean (near where the current golf club is now), exploring and enjoying the adventure of being let loose on our own. Vin reminded me of a time he was very matter-of-factly explaining how you held on to a cow's teats to milk it and my Catholic-raised sister, Jenny and I went beetroot red at a boy saying something that sounded like tits.
Vincent and his partner Ray (they've been together over 35 years I think) took me to Monarto Open Plains conservation zoo near Murray Bridge where we went on an African safari tour with the lions, cheetahs, giraffe, rhinos, zebras, meerkats, hyenas, wild dogs and other assorted endangered animals - several resembling deer. If you look hard enough at the photo of the giraffes, you will see a little two-day old one. The meerkats were, as they always are, cute as ... well, a meerkat. Rhinos sit the way they do (in the photo) because their eyesight ain't too good, so they each have to take a position where they can 'see' anything which might head their way and their ears radiate like mad, picking up all the sounds around them.
A couple of the zoo's cheetahs have been hand-raised and we were told that people are sometimes invited into their enclosure to maintain this contact with humans, although only people over the age of 16 are eligible for this. Apparently, if the cheetahs spy a child in the crowd, their natural instinct of 'food' is roused and they start thinking, "dinner time!"
Our guide also explained the 'pack' mentality of hyenas and wild dogs. Apparently hyenas hierarchy is adults first and then if anything is left, the pups get to eat. Whereas with wild dogs, they are taught from birth "we do it together, or we don't do it at all". When adult wild dogs make a kill, they eat their prey and then go back to the den where the pups are. If one pup comes out to be fed and licks the adult's face, no food is regurgitated. It is only when that pup encourages the other pups to come out to eat, and they ALL lick the adult's face, that the food will be spewed out for the pups to eat. From this, they learn that it is only when they are all together, that they eat. Likewise if one pup wants to go for a swim - it won't venture from the pack, until it enthuses the rest of the gang to come for a swim too.
Another interesting thing I learnt was that zebras and giraffe can co-habitat quite amicably in the wild but when a baby giraffe is born, the zebras will move on because their natural instinct is that a newborn will only attract predators. In the confined space of the zoo, because they can't get away from the baby, they will kick and bite the baby to kill it to eradicate the risk of it attracting predators. Therefore, in an open plains zoo environment, they are put away in a separate enclosure until the baby giraffe is no longer seen as a predator-attractor.
After spending several days in the company of Lainey and Bill (from the Hunter Valley in New South Wales), and sharing several meals together, we bade each other a very fond farewell with lots of "we'll keep in touch" vows, which I hope we do. They were such good fun. We did a couple of things like numerology, a Buddhist personality test and an Ayuvedic type test that we'd gotten to know one another pretty well (down to how regular we were!) It was amazing how much alike Bill and Lainey are - apart from us all being Aries - Lainey at the Pisces end and me at the Taurus end and Bill in the middle - both are Number 5 in numerology and both have similar Pitta, Vata, Kapha tendencies in Ayuveda. They reminded me very much of my very good friends Lisa and Bill in Bright whose company I miss very much. That is, a devoted couple, so in tune with one another and so evenly matched in their 'power' within their relationship.
One of the most beautiful little towns I've stayed at so far, has been Melrose, the oldest town in the Flinders Ranges. It's a gorgeous little place, situated on the boundary of the Mambray Creek and Mount Remarkable National Parks. When I reversed my caravan into my designated spot, I had to make sure I pulled up before the van went tumbling into the dry creek bed. They have a tame kangaroo which visits from time to time, so Marlo was relegated to the chain for the time I stayed there.
There is a quaint little shop, Bluey Blundstone's blacksmith shop in the main street, offering food and accommodation. I really love it when people take something which exists and then improve it with a change of purpose. From blacksmith's shop to boutique accommodation. (By the way, Bluey's is on the market so if you have around $485,000 and feel like a seachange ...)
Another really interesting building in the town was an old brewery - several stories high - which I think is really unusual in a small country town. I love architecture and it's been a real delight to see all those beautiful old buildings in out of the way places (well, out of the way to me).
For now though, I'm still hiding out on the way to Port Lincoln. There is a guy here who's been travelling all along this coastline, camping rough for the past three months. He has a petrol generator and I saw him the other day, sitting out in the sun, giving himself an electric shave! And yesterday, a wild-looking Englishman drove into camp, checking us out. Apparently he's camped out a few bays away, but decided it's too lonely there so as soon as he's bottled his home brew he says he's coming over to where we are. You just never know what life throws up at you!
Here are some photos I hope you like. The one of the canola I took on my way to Melrose; the meerkats were at the zoo I told you about; Lainey and Bill are the couple I met at Langhorne Creek and the sunrise shot I took this morning at my secret hideaway.
Postscript:
I took a drive this morning to Coffin Bay to check out the lovely little fishing shacks I remember from the beach when I was there many, many years ago with a man I was madly in love with at the time - Mad Dick from Harrietville. On the way Lainey and Bill phoned so it was good to know that we WILL keep in touch. Last night I invited both the wild Englishman and the guy who said he "had a bit of black fella in him" to dinner. Both drank home brew and had to get up several times to do what you do when you drink beer - I couldn't help smiling at these two blocks 'marking their territory'! lol
OH, and best news of all! The other night I was standing out the front of my van when a splash in the ocean caught my eye. "Was that a dolphin?" I asked myself, scanning the waves for more movement. To be sure, two dolphins were frolicking in the little bay in front of my van. "It is!!! It is a dolphin!" I cried out, jumping up and down on the spot, so overjoyed with the thrill of it all.
AND ... (you can see how much I have to say!) it's ONE MONTH TODAY since I first set out on this wonderful journey. (Can someone remind me that I've referred to it as a "wonderful journey" the next time I'm bellyaching about how hard it all is?
Love to you all,
Grace

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